My friend and brother Dan Edelen has a good post on people who leave specific churches because they don’t fit in. God stuff.
When I reflect on the people I have known in my Christian life who have left churches, they all seem to have something in common: they are square pegs in round holes.
This is not to say that no square hole exists for them anywhere, only that they will always stick out from the crowd. Not only do they tend to be the 20 percent who do 80 percent of the work, but they tend to be the least acknowledged for it.
And this is because the Church in America has no idea what to do with them.
Something is broken in our churches when it comes to some kinds of people. I’ve encountered too many ultragifted people who ended up as so much church-created roadkill because church leaders either had no idea how to utilize that gifting or they resented or despised that person’s gifting.
Some would argue that this is all sour grapes, but the list of names keeps growing of good people I’ve known who were either used up by a church and discarded or ignored altogether.
Dan follows this up with a list of ten types of misfits. See if you can find yourself in the list.